
Divorce changes almost everything about your finances: your income, your debts, your credit, and where you're going to live. One thing it doesn't have to change is your ability to own a home.
A lot of people coming out of a divorce assume they'll have to rent for years, that they can't qualify on one income, or that they've lost the perks that come with being a first-time buyer. Some of those assumptions are wrong, and believing them can cost you time and money.
Whether you're in Marietta, Smyrna, Kennesaw, Roswell, or anywhere across Metro Atlanta, here's what lenders actually look at when you buy or keep a home after divorce.
Under Fannie Mae's guidelines, you're a first-time homebuyer if you haven't had an ownership interest in a home during the past three years.
There's an exception that surprises most people. If you're a single parent or a displaced homemaker (someone who mainly worked in the home and is now supporting themselves), you can still count as a first-time buyer even if you owned a home within the last three years, as long as that ownership was jointly with your spouse.
Why it matters: some low down payment loan options and many homebuyer programs are limited to first-time buyers. Rules vary by program, so ask before you assume you don't qualify.
If you receive alimony or child support, it can help you qualify. Lenders generally need three things:
That last point catches people. If your child support ends when your youngest turns 18 in two years, that income usually can't be used. And voluntary payments without a written agreement don't count. Planning tip: if your decree is brand new, you may need a few months to build that six-month payment history. Talk to us early so we can map out your timeline instead of guessing. If you're the one paying alimony or child support, those payments count against you when a lender calculates your debt-to-income ratio. That's normal and still workable, but it needs to be planned for.
Many couples share debts- a car loan, a credit card, or the old mortgage. If your divorce decree assigns one of those debts to your ex-spouse, Fannie Mae's guidelines say the lender isn't required to count that payment against you, even if your name is still on the account.
Two cautions:
Buying Out Your Spouse -If you want to stay in the home, the usual path is refinancing the mortgage into your name alone and using the home's equity to pay your ex their share. Under Fannie Mae's guidelines, this kind of buyout can be treated as a limited cash-out refinance instead of a cash-out refinance when:
One important point: a quitclaim deed takes your ex off the title, but it does not take them off the mortgage. Until the loan is refinanced or paid off, both of you are still legally responsible for it. If the home has a VA loan, VA entitlement adds another layer. We have 20+ years of VA lending experience and can walk you through it.
Buying a New Home on Your Own -If you're moving on, you're qualifying on one income, so your debt-to-income ratio and credit score carry more weight. A few things help:
Buying before your divorce is final can get complicated. Talk with your attorney and with us before you sign a purchase contract.
Georgia requires a licensed attorney to handle your closing, and the state charges an intangible recording tax based on your loan amount. Both surprise buyers who are budgeting on their own for the first time. We broke down the real numbers in our Georgia closing costs guide:
Guide: Georgia Closing Costs Explained: Keep More in Your Pocket
Once you're in your new home, apply for your county's homestead exemption to lower your property taxes.
We help buyers across Fulton, Cobb, DeKalb, Gwinnett, Clayton, Douglas, Cherokee, Fayette, Forsyth, Henry, and Rockdale counties, including Marietta, Smyrna, Kennesaw, Acworth, Woodstock, Roswell, and Sandy Springs and more.
Every divorce is different, and so is every mortgage solution. Whether you want to keep the house or start over somewhere new, the right plan starts with knowing your real numbers.
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This article is for general information only and is not legal or tax advice. Talk with your family law attorney about your divorce settlement. All loans are subject to credit approval, income verification, and underwriting guidelines.